Press on & choosing a cheerful heart

Press on and choose joy. Easier said than done? Mind over matter? Time heals all? Forgive and forget? Give it to God? Every one has their own myth about "Pressing On" in their journey through life. Why can't everyone just wake up and begin each day like it's brand new? The choice is yours but where does that strength come from? What works for me "The Joy of the Lord is my Strength" may not work for you. Others may need to try a different path. Following our passions in life is a great way to keep ourselves mentally focused. My passion in life is Photography. I can get lost in wildlife and then I like to share with others what I find or see. Nothing but good can come from surrounding ourselves with nature, positive people and friends. People that give us joy and participate in our journey, whether good or bad. Being with people that listen, share, read or even pray for or with you is a blessing. Our family and friends can be the glue sometimes with extending that hand, open arms and loyalty. Compassion can come from others even if they don't understand, they stick by you.  God can use you, your pain and your story to teach others. None of us are perfect and we are all a working process. Some may feel the need for forgiveness, or maybe one is looking to receive an apology? These can all be difficult if there's no communication. Sometimes it can be a challenge for one to release anger caused by a difficult situation beyond their control. The phrase "keeping things bottled up" comes to mind because some may not want to release angry feelings that would be considered a mean characteristic. Other's live by "wouldn't hurt a flea" or "take their shirt off their back for anyone" may have a hard time knowing what to do with mixed emotions. Some people never had a chance to get something off their chest, good or bad before the other person left this earth or simply walked away. Grieving over someone is never easy, whether it's grieving over a death or a relationship that has ended. We can forgive but we don't forget. So what do we do with all that emotion?  It can be a long process and one thing is for sure, everyone's process is their own. Everyone is picking up the pieces from something or someone at one time or another in their life. Some say there is a two year rule after a breakup, some say there is a six year rule after divorce, some say just roll with it, let it go and you'll be ok soon. Some people in life have or have had to deal with addictions. Some are reminded and live by their rule of twelve steps. There is no over night fix and there really is no time frame, we are all unique. There are rollercoasters of emotions we ride on, we're human and we don't just shut ourselves on and off like a light bulb. One thing is for certain, We Press On. And we keep pressing on. If you're reading this, God is not finished with us yet. His hand is always there. He will bring everything to completion while we grow and continue to process. Over all, what really matters is a cheerful heart. I am grateful for my relationship with God, my friends and my family. I believe partnerships in Christ is a key to success. There is an unknown quote I used under my graduation picture in my senior yearbook several years back. It reads; "We must laugh now for fear may die before we laugh at all" Not that everything in life is funny, but that we keep that joy in our hearts. I will press on!